My Story

After experiencing a toxic first marriage and a painful divorce, I learned the hard way just how devastating unhealthy relationships can be. Through personal experience and years of study in both psychology and theology, I learned the five components of love that have led to amazing relationships, including in marriage to my second wife Heather

I’ve had a bad marriage and a good one and I can tell you - good is better. Heather and I love our life of adventure. Traveling to far away places, living for a while in Prague in the Czech Republic (until COVID messed up those plans), and we even travel the country as professional house-sitters and pet-sitters. Our three boys are grown and living their own lives so we thought, why not see what’s out there.

I hold a Masters Degree in Mental Health Counseling, a Masters of Divinity, a Doctor of Ministry, and a strong belief that through the five components of love, lives can be transformed, relationships developed, and everyone can live a life that matters with healthy relationships that last.